Uncertainties if Life

a big IF, that's what life is all about. LIFE... who knows what's going to happen. changes seem to happen left and right, up and down, front and back... all we can do is prepare, wait then adapt. To what life has got to offer.

People come and go... friends, colleagues, partners, spouses (yes, even spouses). In different shapes and sizes, the unexpected drops down from the heavens and there's nothing we can do about it.

Changes so to speak are neither good nor bad, its how we take it which sets us apart from the whiners who rants and nags about how bad or how much suffering they have to endure 'coz of such changes... suck it up... that's the only thing we can do... and move on. Otherwise leave... if you can avoid it...LEAVE... turn your back and walk away. Never to be seen again.

Make the change to make adapting easier, as the cliche' goes... but isn't there enough changes to go around? disrupting a life that is peaceful and content.

Am I making any sense at all? or I have just joined the very people I detest, the whiners, who think other's battle with changes is a mediocrity compared to theirs... is my war against these changes worse than anyone I know? Its the same world, the same country, same office and same uncertain life that we have... selfish...

IF... that's LIFE, IF in the middle... right in its midst, such uncertainty, much distress... i wanna break free.. the rebel in me is struggling to come out from the repression of being powerless brought about by the need to live up to other people's expectation.

Sad but true, we live by other people's expectation and that's no IF.